“My Erotic Essence Was Not Only a Source of Pleasure, But Also The Catalyst For My Emotional Healing”

-Mayra

Meet Mayra

Has sex and intimacy ever felt like a foreign language? You know enough to get by, but you know that, with fluency, your experience would be so much richer?

I am Mayra Chaidez, Somatica®️ trained sex and relationship coach, and I’m a native speaker of sexuality. Let me be your translator. My erotic curiosity has been a catalyst for my emotional healing, and my mission is to help you find yours.

I believe that intimacy and connection are essential needs and that pleasure is your birthright. Both should be pursued with unapologetic intention while maintaining respect and empathy for ourselves and our chosen partners.

For the past ten years, I’ve immersed myself in the beauty and complexity of human sexuality, and here is what I’ve learned: our sexuality is a powerful gateway to self-discovery. When we welcome it, we open ourselves to a deeper understanding of ourselves and others.

My work fosters personal transformation through authenticity, vulnerability, self-acceptance, and exploration.

My Role In Your Journey? …thought you’d never ask ;)

I’m here to support your emotional, relational, and erotic journey. Whether you are working through relationship challenges, seeking more pleasure and fulfillment, confronting past trauma, navigating non-monogamous/open/poly relationship dynamics or ready to explore dark desires such as BDSM, KINK or D/s in a safe and consensual fem led space.

I specialize in creating a safe and non-judgmental space for women and couples. I believe in the power of understanding core desires, attachment styles, relational wounds, boundaries, and fantasies to enhance intimate connections.

As your coach, I will teach you fundamental evidence-based tools to become the lover you desire to be, facilitating self-exploration and growth. Utilizing a trauma-informed lens, we will reveal unrecognized needs and get familiar with the relational wounds that so often prevent us from achieving authentic intimacy.

Together, we will banish taboos and create pathways for the genuine communication necessary to strengthen relationships and achieve lasting pleasure. We all have the potential to master the language of sexuality. Join me in the pursuit of deeper connection and personal empowerment.


“Somatica Sex and Relationship Coaches are specifically trained to help you figure out your Core Desires. They can also help you share, construct, and teach each other your Hottest Sexual Movies.   When utilizing a coach to help you unearth, communicate, and learn each other’s movies, you may want to do it as a couple, or you may want to do some individual work first and then come back together and practice. It depends a lot on where you are in your process with one another, and there are good arguments for both.”
― Danielle Harel, Coming Together: Embracing your Core Desires for Sexual Fulfillment and Long-Term Compatibility